Everyone needs a PLACE TO TALK

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The Place where healing meets honour
Whether you're navigating the impact of trauma, emotional neglect, burnout, or simply feeling like you’ve lost touch with yourself, our work together can help you move forward. Counselling and psychotherapy offer a space to understand your story, make sense of your feelings, and explore what you need to heal. Therapeutic coaching helps you reconnect with your values, shift unhelpful patterns, and take empowered steps towards the life you want to live.

Using a shame-informed, neuro-affirming approach, you’ll gain tools to:
  • Reclaim your self-worth and identity
  • Set healthy boundaries and honour your needs
  • Heal from emotional pain and past experiences
  • Reconnect with your internal clarity and confidence
  • Create meaningful change in life, work, and relationships
  • Build a life that reflects your truth.

Are you feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or out of alignment?
Maybe you've been signed off from work, college, or university with stress or anxiety. Perhaps low mood or burnout is making it hard to enjoy life, even when things should feel good. Life doesn’t always go the way we hoped—relationships break down, grief arrives unexpectedly, and difficult experiences from the past can quietly shape how we feel, think, and relate to others.

You might be carrying shame, self-doubt, or a sense of disconnection from yourself or those around you, perhaps rooted in trauma, emotional neglect, or complex relationships. Maybe you feel lost, unsure of your values or purpose, or stuck in patterns like silencing your needs or fearing rejection.You might not even know who you are anymore, only that you feel lost, stuck in old patterns, and unsure of what matters to you. You may feel disconnected, full of self-doubt, or stuck in patterns like people-pleasing, emotional overthinking, or silencing your needs.

It’s important to know these are signs of deeper pain, not personal failure.


You are not broken - You’re becoming
This isn’t about fixing” yourself, you are not broken. At PLACE TO TALK THERAPIES we will work together as you rediscover your voice, reconnect with your truth, and move towards a more grounded, authentic, and fulfilling life.

1-1, in-person sessions for individuals, aged 16+, by appointment only.

In-person session locations:

Bournemouth, BH10
West Parley, BH22

Online Sessions
For clients throughout the UK and internationally (subject to client country laws).

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Founder | MBACP Therapist | Therapeutic Coach | Supervisor

Hi I'm Kay,

At the heart of my work is a simple truth, l believe shame softens in the presence of authentic honour. I’m not here to fix or rescue anyone, I’m here to witness, to validate, and to walk alongside people as they return to themselves. For me, this work isn’t about becoming shameless, it’s about becoming whole, reclaiming identity through authentic honour, and returning to a compassionate sense of self-worth.

I have specialised experience in working with Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACES), Anxiety, Attachment Issues, Bereavement, Birth Trauma, Miscarriage & Baby Loss, Sexual Trauma & Rape, Domestic Violence and Pre-Trial support. I have worked with many clients who have been struggling with issues including: stress, relationship issues & life transitions (divorce, separation, redundancy, retirement, relocation etc), low self-esteem/shame, childhood neglect/abuse, chronic illness, PMS/PMDD/menopause, self-harm, panic attacks and issues relating to spirituality. As far as I am able, I aim to create inclusive and accessible environments for all. With specialised training in neurodiversity—including ADHD, ASD, and AuDHD—and enriched by my RNIB certification, I develop strategies that embrace your individual, unique strengths and difficulties.

My focus is on providing support to help you build resilience and gain deeper insight into the factors impacting your mental well-being. By understanding and addressing these challenges, we will work collaboratively towards improving your emotional and mental health. Integrating CBT, Person Centred, and attachment theory and elements of Internal Family Systems (IFS) and Systemic Theory enables me to create a personalised experience, specific to you.

Alongside my work at PLACE TO TALK THERAPIES, I also work as an associate counsellor at Poole Therapies where, amongst other clients, I work with students completing their MA/PhD research while on international placements. I have also been a counsellor at STARS, a specialised Sexual Trauma Agency in Dorset, providing counselling support to clients who have experienced recent sexual assault, childhood sexual abuse or domestic violence.

Before training as a counsellor, I worked as the Family Liaison Officer for Family Counselling Trust (Dorset) and before that I was a swimming teacher. My working life has previously included roles as a Registered Midwife and Registered General Nurse. I am married with a grown-up family, and love living on the South Coast of England, where I enjoy walking my springer spaniel along the beach and in the surrounding countryside.

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With a team of associate counsellors PLACE TO TALK THERAPIES can support you in-person or online

Kay
Lead Therapist

My practice is neurodiversity-affirming and shame-informed, drawing on my unique Honour Framework™ to help clients rediscover felt safety, strengthen self-worth and heal with clarity and care. I have specialist training with the Foundation for Infant Loss and SANDS, supporting people through IVF treatment and the grief of baby loss. In-person sessions in Bournemouth and secure online therapy across the UK and internationally.

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Jacqui
Therapist

I am a Trauma-Informed, Humanistic, Integrative Counsellor offering confidential, neurodiversity-affirming therapy. My experience includes supporting individuals through bereavement, adverse childhood experiences, domestic and sexual abuse, trauma, PTSD, and major life events. Sessions are available in-person (West Parley) and via secure online delivery.

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Coming Soon
Therapist

I have experience working with adults on a range of issues including anxiety, depression, grief, relationship difficulties, domestic abuse recovery and life transitions. My integrative training allows me to blend different therapeutic approaches to meet the individual needs of each client. I offer sessions both in-person in Bournemouth and online across the UK.

Kay
Lead Therapist
Jacqui
Therapist
Coming Soon
Therapist

Talking therapies & supervision - In-person/online

Counselling & Psychotherapy

Counselling is often focused on a single issue, such as anxiety, stress, or a life event, helping you gain clarity and coping strategies. Psychotherapy is a deeper process for exploring complex or longstanding issues like trauma, self-worth struggles, or relational patterns, fostering lasting healing and transformation.

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Therapeutic Coaching

I offer coaching informed by my therapeutic training, helping individuals cultivate inner confidence and lead in a way that aligns with their identity, values, and strengths. I support clients in developing self-trust and making intentional choices that reflect who they truly are, empowering them to live authentically and with clarity

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EMDR & REWIND

* EMDR Availabilty November 2025* Process and heal from trauma by using eye movements or other bilateral stimulation to reduce the distress of painful memories. It's proven effective for PTSD, anxiety, and other emotional wounds. EMDR can be used on its own or alongside talking therapy to support deeper emotional healing.

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Supervision

A reflective and open space to discuss your client work for your practice and professional development. 1-1 and group supervision. If you are a qualified counsellor or counselling student looking for a supervisor, contact me for more info. Group supervision, in-person or online, now available- max of 4 therapists Limited spaces available.

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Examples of some of the issues and concerns we work with

Fees apply In-person and Online

Counselling/Coaching - £65

I have a calm, comfortable, and private room. Free parking is available. There are two steps at the entrance of the property, and my room is on the ground floor. Online sessions take place via TEAMS or WhatsApp video

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EMDR/REWIND - £90-£120

Rewind & EMDR within regular therapy sessions or booked as a package. If you would like to book REWIND or EMDR sessions without committing to regular therapy, the following standalone package is available: REWIND 3 sessions £270 EMDR 6 sessions £720

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Supervision £70 - £120

Clinical Supervision for students and qualified therapists/counsellors. 1-1 or group supervision (max 1:4) offered. Limited spaces available. 1-1 Supervision = £70. Group Supervision = total £120

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Contact me for my availability kay@place2talk.co.uk 07858 984519 

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Submit the contact form and I will reply, or send me an email to enquire about my availability.

We will need to arrange a time for a 15 minute phone call to discuss your needs (this is free of charge). During the phone call, you can give me a brief outline of what is bringing you to counselling so that I can check if I am the right counsellor to work with you. You can also ask questions about how I work to help you decide if you would like to work with me. We can decide whether to work together in-person or online.

Following the call, you are not obligated to book a session. However, if I am able to offer you a mutually acceptable date and time to start your counselling sessions, I will endeavour to hold the session time for 72 hours if possible.

Your contact information is treated as confidential and not used by third parties. Please let me know on the form if you have a preferred method for me to reply.

I'm in crisis, I need to talk now
If you are in crisis now believing your own, or someone else's, life to be in danger please dial 999.
Alternatively organisations who can speak with you now are listed below.
Samaritans: Free call 116 123
SANEline: 0300 304 7000
Papyrus HOPELINEUK: 0800 068 4141 (suicide prevention)
CRUSE Bereavement Support Helpline: 0808 808 1677
SHOUT - Text Support Service: 85258
National Domestic Violence Freephone 24 Hour Helpline 0808 2000 247/Text: NCDV to 60777

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Client-Counsellor Relationship: Accessing this website or using its content does not create a professional client-counsellor relationship between you and PLACE-TO-TALK. Such a relationship is established only once a formal contract has been signed.
Limitation of Liability: PLACE-TO-TALK services, offered by a qualified counsellor, shall not be held liable for any decisions or actions taken based on the information provided on this website. Reliance on any information provided herein is solely at your own risk.
In Case of Emergency: If you are experiencing a mental health crisis or emergency, please immediately contact your local emergency services or go to the nearest emergency centre.
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